“The moment I became sexually active, I badly wanted to please myself without always needing a man or having to deal with the sexist ways men treat women. But, I felt ashamed that I was touching myself and felt I was probably under the influence of a bad spirit or demon.” Thus being said I’m not saying that I don’t need to have sex with a partner for pleasure; I’m saying that I did not always want to deal with that sexist way men tend to view and treat girls that they were having sex with (some guys can be annoying with the way they view women; as objects). Growing…